Need to:

1. Open my eyes to the variety of people around me, their nature, their strengths, their weaknesses, their 可爱之处, their ways of life. Need to form images of interesting, real life people in my mind as if I were friends to them.

2. Not think of myself as an unfortunate. The fact that I haven't achieved doesn't mean I'm deprived. It just means I haven't tried enough.